For my friends who read this,
If you are in this situation you need to leave abusive men or women. Anything where you are made to feel small by “jokes” that put you down, yelling at you where you feel small, being laughed at for the choices you had made in life, name-calling, shaming, being controlled by being told what you can or can’t do, being hit, being forced to do things you do not want to do, being told you can not see your friends or family, being bullied, being made to feel like your crazy when you can FEEL that they are lying to you, always playing the role of a victim as they never take responsibility for their actions because it’s always the other person’s fault, or they use manipulation, then you need to leave because it’s not going to get better!
This is a person who is living in the lowest state of light consciousness, meaning there is much darkness that is holding them back in their lives within themselves to be a good person, and deep in their ego due to at least one of the forms of abuse during their younger years in life. But there is hope for them and for all who have suffered from abuse in some form or way, let me share with you in this article.
These actions against you will all lower your self-worth knowingly or unknowingly while you are going through it. The longer you stay in it, the longer it takes to heal from the abuse once finding the courage to leave, after being beaten down to the core. This is also where you will have to grow from if reaching this space, which in return will help you in becoming a stronger person to learn boundaries of energy in your life.
This is an unfortunate way some of us learn, but nonetheless, this is what happens through this form of experience after doing the healing work from the suffering that diminished your inner light of love for self and life, now becoming a powerful being of light as you learn and grow from the experiences of suffering.
For the abuser or victim, if the person who is hurting another does not heal their past they will never change. The abuser will stay the abuser and the victim will stay the victim. The only way to fully change within is to seek outside help to heal their past, which is causing them to lash out towards another or to stay suffering within with what you lived through. But they fully have to desire it on their own for themselves and not to do it because someone told them to. This is the only way for real change, is the desire for change and to do the work for the freedom within that is possible for all.
I know first hand because 25-30 years ago I was playing the role of a narcissist. It was when I started to heal my past that caused me to be this way when I started healing different layers of my past at the age of 17. This is when the real change started to happen within me. I only knew what I knew from the personal experiences I lived through. This conditions us with stored energy that causes us to not feel good and to repeat what we lived through as children. Until we face the past and heal it, this stored energy of pain will continue to act out in hurting another, which in return hurts us, as we suffer in silence.
Until a person heals from their past, they will just continue down the path of hurting others because they are hurting within. But change is possible for all and I lead by example in my life to show it can be done if you want it bad enough. For the victim or abuser because I was once both, unfortunately.
If you are a narcissist or an abuser who is reading this article, I want you to know I am here for you and I do not judge you. I know you deeply suffer within from what you have lived through as a child and I’m so sorry for all the pain you lived through to cause you to be how you are today. How you are is not your fault for the pain that was done to you nor did you deserve to be treated as you were, but healing your past is your responsibility and I am a being who is here to show you the way to freedom, to end the energy of suffering that comes from you that you pass onto another.
The people who harmed you were also in the same state where they were never healed and their stored energy of pain was passed on to you. If they were given the chance of healing from their suffering they would never have done it to you. It was never anything personal to who you were and are. Just generations passing on the actions of abuse from never having the chance to heal with what goes on in silence behind closed doors.
You have never been given the right help to heal the energy which causes you to act as you do, it is not the truth of who you are within, it is all stored lower vibrational energy (pain and suffering) of the past that causes you to act as you do. It is possible for all to be healed and my three-hour session “Freeing Your Soul” will instantly change your life if you allow me to use my gift and abilities to heal the energy from your past, only if you are ready to be fully open and honest so I can do what I do best, to heal suffering that you have lived through.
Here you will find freedom from all the suffering once lived through. But being conditioned as you were and for how long that you have been this way and telling another person the truth of the past, allowing yourself to be vulnerable with letting the wall down that was placed within you to protect you as a child, will be one of the biggest battles you will have to face to free yourself in my session where I guide you to freedom. Only the willing that desires to finally be freed with complete openness and honesty of the past will find the success that I offer to all people to their inner freedom back to the light. Instant freedom from all you have lived through is given only to those who are ready to work with me.
The truth be told as I speak on part of having been a narcissist myself, if you could see my childhood like watching a movie about what I lived through as a young boy, you would then understand why I grew with these forms of behaviors. This is the truth for all narcissists. They will never talk about their past or how they suffered and they will keep it a secret because it is too hard for their inner being to bring up. They are in deep suffering within their conditioned mind and they learned to block out feeling their emotions within and why they become so cruel with their actions in hurting another. Thick walls have been placed from when they were young to protect them from feeling any emotions due to their suffering and will typically end up suffering from some form of addiction, as they never had the right work yet to tear down these walls to heal the pain of what they lived through.
For the ones who believe you can help change someone, you are living in false beliefs. You cannot help these people who are acting in this way of suffering. You cannot save them, they have to save themselves by reaching out for help. There is only one person to save in these experiences and this is yourself, by leaving and finding the support to help you leave a toxic relationship and then doing the healing work for what you just lived through. If you try to heal the abuser you will learn the hard way, as you lose yourself in the process of trying, every time.
For those who are suffering today from narcissistic abuse or any abuse period and feel completely torn to pieces, then with just 3 hours of your time working with me through video calling, I can use my gifts and abilities alongside with using the wisdom and knowledge I’ve acquired from my connection to the other side, to free your soul from suffering. I do this by healing the energy that is a part of you that causes you to suffer, which is holding you back from feeling the love of who you are. It will bring instant healing and transformation to your life when the session is over. Freeing Your Soul.
As we work together by me guiding you to connect with me through a meditation state, healing all past painful experiences that you have lived through, has given instant transformation to each person who has reached out to me and wanted to release the energy of pain that stays within them to suffer. I understand what it’s like to be abused and then to become an abuser. It’s why I feel so driven to help both sides of the coin who are out there suffering in the world today because I’ve done the healing work in healing my life to understand it. Where there is healing work done with another who has done the work, here is where will find freedom and the light coming back into our lives.
If there is one thing I really dislike to hear is when someone says “well at least they never hit me”. I shake my head with a flow of sadness that moves through my being because they don’t even realize fully yet how bad the emotional abuse is or was until they leave it and start to heal themselves.
Emotional, mental, and verbal abuse, if not the same, is worse in my books from growing up with those experiences. However, any form of abuse is damaging. All abuse is emotional because it is stored energy from that experience which is then stored within you until healed from those painful experiences. Once you are freed from the abuse and you grow through rebuilding yourself and life, then you can look back and see the emotional abuse that was done to you and become very happy and grateful that you found the courage and strength to leave.
Once you leave, the healing needs to start to happen in order to bring your inner light back up to a space where you feel higher levels of self-worth and self-love again, or it may be the first time you ever understand what it feels like, to love yourself unconditionally. This is so important and we can only do it in a faster way by reaching out for outside help. I know because this is how I got here in my today in life, I didn’t do it alone.
This is a part of our soul’s journey in life here, to HEAL from our experiences of suffering by learning, growing, and then evolving. Know you are worthy and know you are amazing but now it’s time to move on and heal with also setting boundaries in your life moving forward, as you let go and move on for your own mental, emotional and spiritual state. To find true love for yourself that lives within you and for your life again. This all must happen for your return to inner peace and freedom.
Today my beautiful friends, we are in a time where change is happening. You are watching the world evolve in these moments if you are living in the higher frequencies and vibrations of life to be able to see the truth of what is going on for our evolution. Equal rights for all have happened over time, not being afraid to share who you are and who you love in life, standing up to end abuse for cultures and races worldwide, teaching on the importance of not bullying, watching what you say to others at work of harassment, and people believing when you when speaking up about abuse behind closed doors, the world is listening to make changes through the aliveness of consciousness.
We have been rising over time in the world’s healing process. It’s a beautiful space to be in to see all the good that is happening and that has happened. We will rise from abuse as we end what was not healed from the generations before us who never had the chance to heal as we are living in today. Healing all those abused to end abuse as we move forward into the new generations to come!
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Lots of Love,
After 25 years of doing all the healing work in my life, I’ve had 7 major spiritual awakenings that instantly transformed me and my life. I’ve taken those experiences and have created a 3-hour session that has been instantly ending the suffering of mental health illnesses and moving forward with self-worth and real self-love, Freeing Your Soul Transformational Healing Session. This one session alone has been instantly transforming lives and healing people in physical pain, emotional pain, mental health illnesses, and spiritual strongholds globally. I share in detail how I created this one session that transformed my life here. Seven Spiritual Experiences That Are Transforming Lives Today
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